CNU Mourns the Loss of Brother Cameron Schlifke

Brother Cameron Schilfke was hit by a drunk driver early Saturday morning. Cameron, a brother of the VA Alpha Psi chapter at Christopher Newport University, was on his way to pick up several of his beloved brothers to give them a safe ride home. The impact caused severe head trauma with significant injuries to the brain stem. Cameron, always a recalcitrant individual, struggled valiantly with impossible odds.
Saturday, the brothers stayed throughout the night waiting for news and his family to arrive. Saturday was defined by waiting and hoping for the best. The roller coaster of emotions wore on throughout the day. Cameron’s father, mother, and sister were supported by the brothers. His father delivered the tragic news to the chapter on Saturday, the injuries were too significant.
The visitors on Sunday packed the waiting area, the line was over two hours to see him. Alumni from every era arrived to pay their respects. Through stories, tears, hugs, talking, and listening the brothers said the most difficult good byes. Cameron’s family joined the brothers for dinner on Sunday where we shared stories. In a weekend filled with the dogmatic gloom of a nightmare, one can see the hope that brotherhood brings. No one is ever alone, no one ever forgotten, we witness each others’ suffering and give space or support. The best of brotherhood shows, and never forgotten.
On Monday, November 24th at 9:55 pm, Brother Schilfke joined the chapter eternal. His life was short when measured in years. When measured in lives touched and accomplishments it was not.
There will be a memorial service at Christopher Newport University on Tuesday, December 2nd. |